Dear Dad,
Please Fuck off.
Thanks,
Your daughter
When I started this site, I had only intended for two family members to see it, my cousin, and my sister. My father found it indirectly, and this wouldn’t be such a huge deal if he were, you know, not crazy.
That is, however, not the case. We’re talking about a man who periodically doesn’t pay child support, and who has a nasty havit of driving by the house just “because”.
Growing up, he was an alcoholic with a drug addiction. In the four years since he walked out of our lives, he’s done little but cause trouble. I have tried, on more than one occasion, to have some sort of relationship, but he seems to only want discord. That’s fine. He can find someone else to deal with.
I told him tonight to not contact me again. Anything from tonight on will be logged as harrassment.
It’s been a long week, and I’m trying to relax before NaNoWriMo, since I imagine that will drain me substantially.
I’m sorry that he managed to find your site, and that he’s causing trouble for you. You really don’t deserve that.
It has always been sort of a constant fear of mine that one of my family members will find me online. I’m more open about who I am online than my family knows about me. Essentially it would fuck up everything, majorly. So, although I can’t completely understand EXACTLY
It has always been sort of a constant fear of mine that one of my family members will find me online. I’m more open about who I am online than my family knows about me. Essentially it would fuck up everything, majorly. So, although I can’t completely understand exactly what you’re going through…it still sucks. And I hope he stops bothering you.
Wow. I’ve thought that before. Just not with the last two lines… XD
I’m really sorry he managed to find your site, I really hope he doesn’t bother you anymore.
Sorry about your dad. My mom found my site and I was so embarraced for a month.
Ahh! My Mum just knew about my site, and pretended that she’d found it, when really she hadn’t! I was so scared and worrried, there are just some things that it’s alright for total and utter strangers on teh otehr side of the world to know of you, but not your own mother. It’s tooo personal.
You can block his IP and stuff, can’t you? That must really suck.
hey, sorry about your dad finding your site :[ hope he doesnt bother u anymore
You need to find out his IP and block him from your site. That’s just plain creepy! Good luck with this btw, because from what you said about him, he seems like one to keep stalking around.
It would be awful to be in a situation like that. I hope things work out the way that you need them too.
oh, i’m so sorry! thats really crappy the way he treats his family. hopefully you’ll be able to block him from your domain so you dont have to worry about it anymore!